Growing your hair out can be a real pain in the arse! It's gets in that frustrating awkward stage, it seems like it just stops growing at a certain point and after letting it grow for months or in some cases years you just get frustrated and cut it all off! I am the queen of that but I think I just like having shorter hair more than long :) well let me give some advice on growing out your locks.
1. Have a style in mind you are trying to achieve look at pictures, a lot of pictures! And play it safe find a few styles that you really love and why a few? Because when you go to your stylist they will let you know if you have the hair to pull off that style, how much work it takes to do that style and if it matches your face frame........not a good idea to put in round short layers if you have a round face :/
2. Finding a stylist that "gets" what you are wanting and trying to archive. A confident stylist will talk you through the grow out process so you know what to expect. If they seem unsure or they are adamant about talking you out of what you want ask yourself that question "Can it not be done or can they just not do it?" Not every stylist is created equal some just can't look to the future and see a end result so they would rather just talk you into something "they" think is the right cut for you. Now don't get me wrong I have had people bring in pictures and show me they want "This" hairstyle and I honestly looked around thinking I was being Punked! It is true not all hair is created equal so that means we all can't have what we want BUT a fantastic stylist will collaborate with you and come up with a solution. And I will say sometimes I have been working with a client and we have great ideas but then we're like yea No and have to adjust our ideas but like I said its a collaboration and we work it out :)
3. Dead ends are NOT pretty and actually will stall out the process of growing out your hair. Dead split ends keep splitting which causes the hair to break which completely defeats you growing it out and not to mention just looks trashy! If you're starting to grow out your hair and its damaged you should get trims every two months to get it healthy and a trim means 1/4 inch not 3 inches! So that way you will still get length in the process of getting it healthy, hair grows a average of 1/2 inch a month so you're ahead of the game :)
4. Sometimes you have to take some off to even out the cut but people get freaked out that they don't want to lose any length so they just won't do anything and then they get frustrated that they are always pulling it back, it just has no style or you have a super mullet! WaLa off it goes or you look like arse for a good year! I would rather have a amazing shorter cut in my hair than a jacked up longer one! And trust me I am going through this right now! I had the sides and back clippers down while the top was longer and now I'm trying to even it out and I want to scream but I'm getting it trimmed and evened out so I don't look awful, it's a damn process but I will do it!
5. Patience! If you have this and a fantastic stylist you will get to what you want :)
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